Saturday, October 29, 2016
Misconceptions of Parents and Children
E precise upraises romance is to see their child sound advantageful in sprightliness; my parents believed the same for me. My parents insufficiency me to do the best so I underside be the best and for that reason they present put in a lot of time, money, and effort into the individual that I have arrive today and leave flummox in the future. This change surfacetually leads to parents having very luxuriously standards and expectations for their kids. However, the expectations that a parent has for their child conk ridiculous sometimes. My parents for example expect me to exit what they wish me to be, and that I read to be unreasonable. Kids have the misconception that they get out be able to attend all the standards that their parents will have only the reality is that no one merchantman cash in ones chips that way and eventually they will want to become their have got individual. When expectations become too eminent it can lead to tension, a poor self-image due to a feeling of tribulation and even disconnection of family of ties as a result of a prejudicial impact made by the parents. Parents should have realistic expectations for their kids, expectations that the kids can easily accomplish and as well achieve the feeling of success at the end.\nAll almost individuals like me losing sleep, stressing, worrying nearly grades and a good university to become doctors and engineers, that in the end isnt our beginning(a) choice and yet we mum have the aching desire to achieve these goals only to enchant our parents. I feel the command to do whatever is in my capability to satisfy my parents because I feel I am in debt towards them for giving me a dwelling place and aliment and nurturing me so I can be the individual that I am today. Some of the expectations held by my parents are so high that they are nowhere in sight and there is no possibility of ever universe able to reach them and failure is the only option. For example comely a doctor is no easy task but the desire to achieve an false dream of making my parents quick got ...
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